APPEARANCE
- Worker Ken Pagington, Durban, September 22, 1996: "Another sign of
Herod's leaven is fashion. Fashions change and hardly ever last longer than
some years. There is no change of standard in GOD's kingdom; modesty and moderation.
Obviously one would dress differently on the beach but one can always stay
modes. In Madagascar, the first lady who ever professed was my language teacher.
When Lucie professed her dresses were ok but not what we liked. One day I
got a picture form her to send to friends. It was an old picture and I got
a felt tip pen, lowered the dress and asked a photographer if its ok to take
a new photo of the picture. I showed Lucie and within two weeks all her dresses
were long."
- Why the truthers can't see that a relationship with God has nothing to do
with appearance is beyond me.
- >>It is this HAUGHTINESS that makes the 2x2's so repulsive to me.
It is this attitude, which is so FAKE, that makes it so difficult for me to
speak the truth in love!! Whenever problems arose, they would be swept under
the carpet at ALL costs in order to maintain this appearance of serenity,
humility, and calmness. << **You mentioned "It is this HAUGHTINESS
that makes the 2x2's so repulsive to me." I feel a bit like that now,
too, and I do understand what you mean. But you and I have "been there"
and know what is going on with them. Outsiders don't understand that. They
see calm, serene, etc. FOR THE MOST PART. **
- I certainly never felt proud of how different I looked! .........hmmmmm,
come to think of it I do recall having a "higher than thou" feeling
at least once. I was attending an indoor horse show. Anyway there were a few
thousand people in attendance. I scanned the audience and could NOT find one
other female in a skirt or dress! YES, that day I DID feel proud. Proud that
"I could show them!!!" *I* was dressed like a lady! The way a LADY
should dress! I doubt if anyone noticed unless it was to wonder why on earth
a female would wear a dress to such a function! But that was likely one of
the only times I felt proud of my appearance. And even then I wonder if I
wasn't really taking on the proud attitude so as to comfort myself for looking
so different. Sort of "sour grapes" you know.
- Professing women & women workers didn't wear short sleeves some years
ago, here in the midwest white shoes were a no-no until a decade or two ago.
Still sister workers don't wear white shoes here--other places? Things that
are totally "NOT TO BE DONE" here (clothing-wise) may fly in other
parts of the US or world.
- A proper outward appearance was needed so one could blend with the other
terrified, brain-washed children of the "Truth."
- The more I modeled my appearance and behavior after the workers the more
pride I felt; the more spiritual I felt.
TTT stocks the following
by Ralph Woodrow, which I highly recommend, and some of you may be
interested in reading:
WOMEN'S ADORNMENT: Does the Bible forbid women to wear slacks, jewelry
and make-up? Did Paul forbid Christian women to cut their hair? Was it
a "shame" that some men in the Bible had long hair? This book exposes
the folly of external strictness, or legalism.
Women's Adornment is $5.00 USA funds.
Professing women in the 'early days' used to have to wear black stockings.
As a result in some areas the sect was nick-named THE BLACK STOCKINGS. Refer
to the section on VOT about BLACK STOCKINGS.
See TTT web site to order
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